He said that he is not sure yet if this would just be for scenes or special occasions, or something I would need to do daily, like wearing skirts and dresses.
I'm not fully sure how I feel about it. I like the idea of wearing some ultra sexy shoes for him. I love when Sir finds any type of clothing attractive, since for the longest time he seemed to have no pulse when it came to trying to dress sexy for him.
On the other hand, I have back and posture issues. Wearing heels for an extended period of time, especially everyday would probably be hell on my back. We went to the mall the other day and I wore my knee-high boots that have a moderate heel (I didn't know we were going at the time of leaving the house). I was in such pain by the time I left the mall.
I wonder if with training those issues could be alleviated. I think if I didn't have the back health issues I do, that it would definitely be feasible. But with my back, I fear not having proper foot and arch support might be a limit that is imposed on us by outside forces.
I totally hear you. I have several pairs of heels that I really love. But wear them even for just a little while and my back starts talking to me about acting my age.
ReplyDeleteI know! Even with smaller heels, I start feeling it. Perhaps with better posture I'll be able to handle it beter.
DeletePosture definitely has a big thing to due with the problems of heels. With dancing, I've had posture beaten into me, and so I actually stand correctly even in heels, which makes my walking in them a bit clunky looking.
ReplyDeleteThat said, I'm a shortie, and so wearing heels brings me about up to average height for a woman. I wear wide-ish heels every day because I'm a trainwreck in narrow heels, and don't feel any back issues. It also makes things easier for smooching boys, because I dig guys way taller than me.
Work on your normal posture for now, and then move onto heels and it'll all be much easier for you.
That's what Sir's plan is I think. Posture for me is difficult because my spine is curved. I've been practicing when I can, and holding good posture actually hurts. I hope thaat goes away with time. I'm also doing core strengthening exercises.
DeleteI have one fused ankle which makes it completely impossible to wear any sort of heel. I lust after shoes! Fortunately there is no pressure me to wear heels from my Owner, He understands my disability although I really wish I could.
ReplyDeleteThat's good that he is so understanding! I'm sure there are other things that you do that are sexy for him.
DeleteShould He decide that you begin wearing heels, please let me know. i would be more than happy to help. This doesn't have to be the insurmountable task it seems to be. You can totally do this! =)
ReplyDeleteThanks. I've read some of your writings about hoisery and such making it easier on your shoes. I think Sir's plan is to have me work on back health and correcting my posture first (which is something I'd started doing before we moved in together, then sort of let slip away).
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