Betrothed

We went away this weekend to visit friends in another state.

While we were away - Sir asked me to marry him! Of course, I said YES!

He got down on one knee in a semi-secluded treehouse. It was perfect.

He'd been plotting for a bit, with my friends' help.

I had no idea, and was just so shocked that my first response was "Are you serious?!"

I didn't understand what he was doing down there.

I got hold of my senses and said of course and jumped down into his arms, nearly bowling him over.

Its been a couple of days and I'm just so... shocked. But in a happy way!

Sir put a ring on it!

Skirt Benefits

You may or may not know, that in my private life, I have a dress code from Sir. I am to wear skirts or dresses. I may wear leggings underneath them when the weather calls for it.

Sir wants to change that to a garter and stockings or thick socks eventually.

Well, the rule had a great benefit this weekend. We went to a party for one of Sir's friends. I wore my leggings and skirt. But it ended up being over 85 degrees and I was boiling. Well, I was able to go into the bathroom and take those leggings off, so I could be in my skirt. 

Much cooler.

I wouldn't have been able to do that had I been wearing pants!

*Found this on the internet. There should be a section for "because Sir said so".

Will You Obey?

I've been struggling a lot lately. For months, if I'm being honest. Just in general, and it feels to me like it's with everything. With the stress at my job, with dealing with my family, with keeping up with chores and housework, with my sports team ( a LOT is going on there, and I have some very tough decisions to make)... and with D/s. Not so much with Sir per se, but just with being submissive, and retaining that mindset.

I had a day off, and Sir didn't. For once, I didn't have other obligations on this day. I slept in, and when I woke up, he had left this note on the counter, with all my new cuffs laid out underneath it.

I was really grumpy upon seeing this message. I have been struggling a lot lately and normally, a message like this would have made my heart melt. A chance to serve. A reminder that Sir has been thinking about me. But for some reason, I was agitated. I suppose I feel like I haven't really been receiving domination lately. Just a cursory effort. It is not enough to give orders, or just tell someone what to do. There is a hard-to-describe mental quotient involved. Presence, desire, perhaps. And it is not there from Sir at this time.

So this just felt lazy to me. Here, put these on. Here, do a task that you were going to do anyway. Because naturally, you will be wearing those cuffs. It is not natural. It is new, and the assumption and superior tone of the note just rankled. Because of course I'm going to do as I'm told.

But he's the dom, right? That's how it is supposed to be. Superior; above me.

I struggled for awhile wondering what I was going to do. There was a large part of me that insisted I should crumple this note up and go about my day. I didn't though. I just left it on the counter as I went to have breakfast. But the longer I waited, the more it ate at me. I didn't go into action right away. But eventually.... I did put the cuffs on.

"I'll put these on", I thought, "But I am NOT cleaning that kitchen!"

Hours went by. it was nearly the end of the day and....

I cleaned that kitchen, too.

There were 2 things I didn't complete... but I cleaned and organized the kitchen. Going against my initial reaction... I obeyed. It took a little time, but I did it.

If any of you have been watching the Chilling Adventures of Sabrina on Netflix, it reminded me a little of something Aunt  Hilda was saying in episode 13, when talking to Sabrina about when the Dark Lord presented her with a box, that had a button to push.

It wasn't about the act itself, or what the act would do... it was knowing that she would obey.

Lazy Sunday

Sir and I haven't been getting a whole lot of time together lately. We typically don't have the same days off. And when we do, there are usually other commitments.

So we decided that once a month, we will put everything on hold so we can have a day together. That day came, and we had a fantastic Lazy Sunday.

I didn't go to sports practice. Sir didn't go gaming. We stayed in. Slept in. Sir used his logic to take me out to breakfast - "It's not a lazy Sunday if you have to cook, right?"

The rest of the month is crazy so I'm looking forward to our next one!

New Gift - Velcro Cuffs

Sir bestowed upon me a new gift recently.

These:

We had a nice set of leather cuffs, but one of them broke. One of the ankle cuffs.

It's probably been years since that happened. Sir finally replaced it with a set of Velcro cuffs. They're deceptively strong and ingeniously devised so as not to be out-maneuvered. I'm surprised, and impressed. They also came with a collar, but it itches like the dickens.

Since Sir's biggest kink is undoubtedly any kind of bondage, lately he has taken to having me in the house cuffed up each night.

Yesterday, he added the chain!

Do Nothing

I am freshly showered, nude, and told to stand in the middle of our bedroom.

Sir ties my hands, something we have not done in awhile.

Circling me... a pinch here, a tap there.

"Are you cold?"

"Yes, Sir."

"Hm... you're about to get colder."

Sir walks away, to get something. Unthinkingly, I turn my head to look, though my feet remain firmly planted in place.

"I did not say you could look!"

"You didn't say I couldn't look..."

That was not a wise remark.



When a bitch is not told what to do, she does *nothing*.

BONDiNG

Have any of you watched Bonding on Netflix?

Sir and I just binged the series.

If you've seen it - what do you think?