A friend of mine is getting married and has asked me to be her maid of honor. I am happy to do it.
I have been in quite a few weddings. I have been a maid of honor four times now, and in 8 weddings total.
I digress.
We are in different states, but have gotten together to do wedding planning things together. She recently mentioned that her and her fiance are a little kinky!
Honestly, I feel so fantastic about it. I am glad that they are able to enjoy each other. I am also glad that she felt safe enough with me (I would hope she would, being that she asked me to be her MOH) to bring it up!
And since she brought that up first, I felt comfortable letting her know a little bit about me and Sir. Not ALL of it... but the basics.
It is such a relief to not feel that I have to hide that part of myself with her. That we can be open about it. And now that she knows, she is asking me all sorts of advice questions.
I guess I/we are a bit more experienced in that department, something I'd never thought I'd say!
Us....
I have been in quite a few weddings. I have been a maid of honor four times now, and in 8 weddings total.
I digress.
We are in different states, but have gotten together to do wedding planning things together. She recently mentioned that her and her fiance are a little kinky!
Honestly, I feel so fantastic about it. I am glad that they are able to enjoy each other. I am also glad that she felt safe enough with me (I would hope she would, being that she asked me to be her MOH) to bring it up!
And since she brought that up first, I felt comfortable letting her know a little bit about me and Sir. Not ALL of it... but the basics.
It is such a relief to not feel that I have to hide that part of myself with her. That we can be open about it. And now that she knows, she is asking me all sorts of advice questions.
I guess I/we are a bit more experienced in that department, something I'd never thought I'd say!
Us....
Niice!, Lea ... finding you have something special to share with your friend ... and how great that she might benefit from your experience .. nj ... xx
ReplyDeleteHi Lea, how wonderful you and your friend will be able to share ttwd experiences and support each other in person.
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Roz
My wife and her best friend from college share everything, so my wife thought. Recently when mentioning how I was acting, not good, the friend told her that she spanks her husband, not for sexual pleasure, but for punishment and done so for sometime. I learned this while over my wife lap one Sunday morning, the hairbrush bringing out her points. When she finished, I was told to get ready for church, I said I would have trouble sitting, she smiled and said good.
ReplyDeleteI hope it was an enjoyable experience for you!
DeleteGreat surprise! It's always nice when life drops one of these little connecting bits in our laps.
ReplyDeleteThat's awesome! Isn't it nice to have a friend you can share with. Enjoy the wedding.
ReplyDeleteAmy
I'm so thrilled for them, and for us. It's nice to not have to hide things. To just be who you are!
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