tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2193995482072739335.post8597111569142436240..comments2023-10-03T13:11:50.704-04:00Comments on Submissive Missions: MeltingLeahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17213567388808206135noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2193995482072739335.post-65262339585563249192014-04-11T20:23:41.284-04:002014-04-11T20:23:41.284-04:00I believe the candle we have is soy, if that helps...I believe the candle we have is soy, if that helps.<br /><br />I think how you interpret pain and sensations as far as how much you can take really changes day to day. For me, I can take more when I'm in the right headspace, when I've been prepared with a slower buildup, and during certain times of the month!Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17213567388808206135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2193995482072739335.post-74483578143539485592014-04-07T09:54:47.481-04:002014-04-07T09:54:47.481-04:00MMMM, sounds rather interesting; I've never ev...MMMM, sounds rather interesting; I've never even considered using hot wax before, err, or rather I should say, never considered having it used on me.<br />Such recognition though, with how you mention, how differnt the same sensations can be, when administered by a hand other than our own; What might seem or feel pleasure, and only pleasure, when we do it to ourselves; When coming from the actions of our Dom, wholely out of our control, with unknown force, severity or timing, can feel so entirely differnt; <br /><br />As a sub I'm really trying to get a grip on that in particular; I know the pain, sometimes inflicted on me, is no where as severe as often it feels, or indeed as severe as I sometimes inflict on myself (E.G., when I'm 'testing' out a new flogger, cane, on myself, to see what its like, before Sir gets to use it on me).<br />But trying to make my brain understand, something isn't as painful as it actually seems to be; its just feling tha tway due to its unexpected timing, or its not being under my control, is so difficult; And I really think I need to do that; to make my mind understand that it is entirely not in my control, and be more able for me to take the pain, enjoy the pain, and ultimately thereby, give greater pleasure to Sir, by letting him cane/flog, etc., me for longer, or harder. <br /><br />I guess its all part of learning to 'let go', of 'self', and/or 'control', and allow oneself to give that up, entirely, to ones Dom.<br /><br />You may have inspired me to buy a suitable candel with the lower melting temp, for my Sir, and find out if he'll enjoy using it or not. No doubt I'll end up regreting doing so in some ways, but as ever enjoy whatever delicious sensations may be the result for me. <br /><br />Thanks.Markhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11955539948084168539noreply@blogger.com