tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2193995482072739335.post2862150031253869386..comments2023-10-03T13:11:50.704-04:00Comments on Submissive Missions: Vanilla Brain vs. Submissive BrainLeahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17213567388808206135noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2193995482072739335.post-43027627967971953712014-10-14T20:23:46.294-04:002014-10-14T20:23:46.294-04:00We spoke about it - I just like working things out...We spoke about it - I just like working things out in my head. He's okay with learning, and does not mind at all if I ask him to help me with certain things. That being said, I just have this internal struggle with how I feel about the situation. I think I need to approach asking him to help, or teaching him things from a better place, rather than a place of annoyance.Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17213567388808206135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2193995482072739335.post-55057784363699085762014-10-14T08:09:37.048-04:002014-10-14T08:09:37.048-04:00Honestly, flat out ask him if he would rather take...Honestly, flat out ask him if he would rather take on some of the smaller tasks, or if he would rather just hear what you accomplished at the end of the day. I find it perfectly submissive to keep things like schedules and tasks in mind, but give the reminders, or ask a domlyperson to help with things.<br />Living with someone is a huge adventure, and it's gonna take a lot of communcation and sharing of thoughts to figure out the best system for you guys.<br />Loki Tavielhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15129650045289375076noreply@blogger.com