tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2193995482072739335.post5563226138711997377..comments2023-10-03T13:11:50.704-04:00Comments on Submissive Missions: Outing MyselfLeahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17213567388808206135noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2193995482072739335.post-78938953298825844262016-06-25T09:26:06.795-04:002016-06-25T09:26:06.795-04:00I sign a specific way in blog land "XOXO Pear...I sign a specific way in blog land "XOXO Pearl". I also sign a specific way to everything computer in my vanilla life too. There have been quite a few times that I went to comment in blog land and the post has personally really hit home with me and I have started to (or really started to and deleted) my vanilla world signature. Only once did I hit publish to a comment and honestly had no idea if I signed my vanilla name!! The blogger (her Master) approves comments so it wasn't posted when I hit "publish". Absolutely freaked out, I commented again to them explaining what I thought I may or may not have inadvertently did.......explained my fuck up really only pops up when I feel so connected to the post/blogger that my guard is down. I asked them if my real name was on the comment to please NOT publish it and just know that their post meant a lot to me and my real first name is for them..........turns out.....I signed it "XOXO Pearl" after all!!!!!!<br /><br />XOXO Pearl. ;)Pearl Necklacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11455120796148571047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2193995482072739335.post-74483580999426749382016-06-22T23:26:41.776-04:002016-06-22T23:26:41.776-04:00I think most people have a general idea of kink......I think most people have a general idea of kink.... it's usually way more vanilla than mine, but the idea of being kinky with your partner is appealing/somewhat acceptable so most of that could be rationalized, I think.Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17213567388808206135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2193995482072739335.post-49714162844883044512016-06-22T23:25:33.469-04:002016-06-22T23:25:33.469-04:00Thanks, Roz. Good to know. I think they're def...Thanks, Roz. Good to know. I think they're definitely more in the know than I thought. Even whipping out what I think of as 90's speak (S and M)... well if you know the terminology, you probably know more than that.<br /><br />Learning to keep my mouth shut, not just in these topics but in general is a hard lesson I'm having to learn. I am outspoken and it is hard for me to do.Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17213567388808206135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2193995482072739335.post-59769124461802857922016-06-20T06:02:55.439-04:002016-06-20T06:02:55.439-04:00Hi Lea, I've almost let a few things slip whe...Hi Lea, I've almost let a few things slip when talking to a vanilla friend. Had her ask what that was all about and I covered my tracks by saying its a game we play.<br />Sounds like your co workers might also know more than they let on.<br />Hugs LindyLindy Thomashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13859977416089280383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2193995482072739335.post-86273012692944804062016-06-20T05:01:46.599-04:002016-06-20T05:01:46.599-04:00Hi Lea, oh goodness, I would have been panicking t...Hi Lea, oh goodness, I would have been panicking too. I certainly haven't seen anything. <br />Interesting about your work conversation. Seems your colleagues do know more than you might think about the lifestyle. We have had some 50 Shades discussions too. I always tried to say very little, for fear of giving anything away.<br /><br />Hugs <br />Roz Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.com